One of my biggest beliefs is that friends, especially groups of friends, are a team. Like a family is a team, a group of friends is a team. Everybody has their specific role to play on the team. There is the life of the party, there is the comedian, etc etc. For the first time in my life, I feel like I have found or realized my role with my team of friends.
As frustrating as the single life is, it is the chicken (or is it the egg) to my role, being the egg. Being single may be a result of this, or it may be a cause, but my role right now with my friends is to be the absolute best friend I can be. To make myself available to my friends any time of the day or night. To listen with open ears and an open heart. I listen with out judgement, and offer an empathy and understanding that every single person needs. I may have a large numbers of friends that are girls, and I have no girl interest in my life right now. That is frustrating for me that I don't have any success with girls, but it also makes me feel really glad that I can be their for my friends, girls and guys alike.
This doesn't mean I have any plan of action with my frustrations in love, but until it fixes itself, I get to transmit all the love I have to give to my friends, who need me and my good qualities. That is what I can offer them, and I am in love with being the best friend I can be to them. Absolutely in love.
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